On TikTok, videos of users who share their dates with “high-value men” or those videos where a long list of “requirements” or “high standards” to date someone have become very popular. Despite the fact that these topics are very controversial and criticized, some girls have no qualms about doing this type of content.
Such is the case of Enith, the user who calls herself “the brave girl”, whose story is one of the ones that has attracted the most attention not only from users of the platform, but also from other social networks after sharing the list of “requirements” that are needed to go out with a guy on a date.
According to Enith, one of her conditions is that the young man in question has enough money, he must not ask to split the bill when going out to eat, he must take her to expensive places, have good personal hygiene and not live with his parents.
In addition to that, she added that she would never accept a date with a boy whose first invitation was to go to her house for dinner, watch movies or have a few mezcales, because she is used to going out to expensive places.
I say ‘audacity’ and block it. If I’m going out with you, are you going to take me to one of the places that I’m used to going with my friends or going by myself, which are expensive places.
In addition, she mentioned that, like all women, she deserves to be treated with great respect and stressed that the boy who is interested in dating her should avoid making misogynistic comments, because at the first of this type, “he gets up and leaves.”
I am the type of girl who stops and leaves. You fell as a child, did your brain sink? I am a woman who clearly has standards that you don’t know.
With this type of assertion, instead of being applauded or admired for her self-esteem and high standards, the woman has been designated as “interested and classist” on social networks. Given her remarks, Enith has stressed that she is the love of her life and that, if her standards are high, she is only what she deserves.
Sorry for having “low standards” and being able to enjoy some taquitos 🌮 and a chelita on a first date, and even WORSE, splitting the bills. 🫠 pic.twitter.com/sn3oBO8g5K
— Sad tropics 🫧 (@AntropologaL) May 2, 2023
It should be noted that the young woman also shared that her convictions have always been accurate and that she has never had to pretend to be modest, on the contrary, she is proud of who she is, a woman who lives her sexuality freely and whose standards are not negotiable.
What I want to say to people who criticize or invalidate people who have high standards is that if you don’t believe that someone else or yourself deserve that, shut up.