If you have come this far, it is likely that you have found yourself with a small penis in your sexual life or perhaps you are the one who has it. In either case, I will give you a reassuring message before continuing: penis size doesn’t matter.
In fact, the fact that size matters a lot to women is a myth that has haunted the penis for a long time, and here we love breaking myths. If you don’t believe me, check out this article about cunnilingus myths that I wrote a while ago and that invites us to banish those preconceived ideas that we have about sex.
Well then, continuing with the premise that size does not matter at all, I will tell you that there are some cTips and tricks, as well as sexual positions, with which both members of the couple will enjoy more if the penis does not fall within that so-called normality.
How long is the average penis
As happens to us women, who socially continue to be subjected to certain Social expectations that affect our sexuality, people with a penis are also affected by their own pressures. There is even an idealized image of the size of the penis by the porn industry that ends up causing a distorted vision of what is normal. Data needed at this point: porn is no sex schoollet’s not use it as if it were, please.
Let’s put some facts about penises into context. According to science, penis size is decreasing and pollution is to blame. Now the average is 13.2 cm in erection and 9 cm at rest according to a study published in the British Journal of Urology. According to the study, 2.3% of men would have a micropenis (those whose erection measures less than 7 cm) and 5%, a penis that exceeds 16 cm.
Masters and Johnson were the first to utter the phrase “size doesn’t matter” after researching and observing that the vagina adapts to the size of the penis. When there is excitement, the vagina dilates and becomes more flexible, adapting to different sizes of penises. It is true that according to his observations, and physiologically speaking, a thick penis (not long or large) is capable of better stimulating some external parts of the vagina and clitoris, but neither having a large penis is a guarantee of success, nor having a small penis, guarantee of failure.
it’s possible get pleasure for both with a small peniseven in some cases, more than if we find ourselves with a very large penis, which can cause pain in certain positions. As with many sexual practices, the important thing here is not the machinery we use, but how we do it.
There is sex beyond penetration
Let’s start with the most basic and that we have to get into our heads once and for all: people with vulva do not enjoy penetration so much. In fact, this has a physiological explanation because the vagina does not have as many nerve endings as, for example, the clitoris or any area of the vulva.
Getting stuck in coitocentrism will only bring us frustration if we have a small penisand much less pleasure if we have a vulva. Movements like the slow sex they are leaving that penetration in the background, and there is an increasing awareness that what is important, especially for people with a vagina, is not inside but outside.
A free sex tip: if you want more pleasure, fully explore the genitals. This map of the vulva It will help not only you, but also your partner.
we have told you how to masturbate your partner and it is that, in addition to penetration, there are many other sexual practices such as petting, the black kiss or any type of oral sex that can bring us a lot a lot of pleasure, we have a small, big or whatever penis. Practices in which penetration does not exist and that they will give us a lot of play.
If we are talking about stimulating a person with a penis, we can try looking for his P point, get started in BDSMto try it with him pegging or go for something simpler like a fellatio.
communication is vital
María Esclapez told us in your book sexual intelligence that if we want to be sexually intelligent, we must “accept and live sexuality in a positive way and free from stereotypes and social stigmas”, adding that everyone should be responsible for their own pleasurehence tell our partner what we like and what we don’t, it is our responsibility.
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Talking about sex is the first step to get rid of our fears. People with small penises can feel slighted or uncomfortable with their bodies, and sex is about release and pleasure and can be achieved with any type of penis.
Communicate to our partner what we like and what we don’t in bedwill not only increase our desire, but it will make us feel more secure and we focus on what really interests us, enjoy.
The best sexual positions for a small penis
If we want to try penetration, there are positions that increase the intensity if we have a small penis. We are going to look for deep penetration positions with which we will both feel much more.
The deep
It is also called the missionary with the legs up, and it’s the same as the missionary, but the person who is penetrated will not just lie on their back. He will raise his legs and support them on his partner’s shoulders to encourage deeper penetration by changing the position of his hips.
The doggy
The puppy is one of The most searched sexual positions on Google by Spaniardsand consists of the person who is going to be penetratedGet on all fours and whoever penetrates, do it from behind. The penetration is very deep and allows the G point to be stimulated if the person being penetrated has a vagina, or the P point if she has male genitalia. An extra, there’s a lot to touch while penetrating, don’t stop doing it: breasts, ass, back, clitoris…
the deep puppy
We are going to Vary your doggy style slightly to get deeper penetration. Again on all fours and with the other person behind, we are going to rest our forearms on the bed and lower our head until it touches the bed. In this way the hips rise and there is more penetration.
Elephant
I discovered this position not long ago and the truth is that it is a full-fledged OMG for any type of penis, because there is a lot of pressure. The person who is going to be penetrated lies face down with their legs closed (better if the hips rise a little, you can help by placing a pillow under them). Whoever penetrates is placed on top.
The little spoon
This position may be one of the great forgotten of sex, but it allows you to greatly increase the sensations. Your body and your partner’s body are placed one behind the otherwith the chest of the person who penetrates stuck to the back of his partner.
Sexbonus: use a sex toy
This It is valid not only for small penises but for any sexual encounter as a couple, either way. Let’s get rid of the idea that toys are the third in contention and turn some encounters into a fun threesome. We can try with suckers like chair by LELOor the new Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 which is a true marvel.
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Another option is to opt for toys designed to be used as a couple, for example those that are coupled during penetration, such as the Satisfyer. Partner Plus Controla vibrator for penis-vagina couples.
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