It is increasingly common to find people who do not share the idea of romantic love that many others have, mainly because societies evolve and with it, the beliefs and ideals of humanity. Love is one of the concepts that has undergone the greatest changes, because today, it is seen more as a possibility than as a necessity.
Under this idea, the TikTok user @elysseistheword joins in viewing her love life in a different way, as she stated that she has no interest in finding a partner and that she would not mind staying single forever.
It might sound crazy to soulmate believers or those who have a goal of a happy marriage, but to this young woman, it’s just an old idea that she doesn’t want to waste energy on.
The mere idea of dating someone is repulsive to me. I don’t want to be near anyone. I don’t want to have to text someone and ask how she’s doing or what she’s been up to. Or have someone ask me what I’ve been up to. Go to hell***. Just make me some dinner.
@elysseistheword Is anyone else like this? I just cannot be arsened #foryou #datingadvice #staysinglestayhappy #datinginyour30s #singlemumclub
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In addition to giving her reasons, the user took advantage of the video to ask “Is anyone else like that?” It is more common than it seems.
‘Just me and my cat, a great life’; “I feel the same, I thought it was not normal to feel like this, to be alone and do what you want without being criticized or giving in to maintain balance.”
However, a few did not feel identified with his words, so they did not hesitate to assure him that “no one can live without love” or that “Everyone finally looks for someone to accompany them.” The truth is that no matter how you decide to live, as long as your decisions make you achieve a full life, the rest is superfluous.