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Last Friday there was a debate about infidelity in ‘Today’in which Jacqueline Bracamontes left a reflection based on an infidelity that she suffered from an ex-boyfriend and with which she wanted to start the talk, since she considered that it left her a very important lesson on how to react to such a situation.
“When it happened to me, that I did find out because there will be times that I don’t, which was many, many years ago, with a boyfriend, when I found out and I found out with whom, or with whom, I left them, it’s not that I went to talk to them, but I went for their jugular, ‘damn, why did you mess with my boyfriend’”commented the also actress.
Her reflection focused on the fact that she really had no reason to attack them, instead of focusing on the fact that her then partner was the one who was unfaithful to her. “And the reality is that one realizes and then, as the years go by, you say, Why do we go against women if he was the one who made the mistake?”he added.
Given this, the psychologist Belkis Carrillo explained that this reaction occurs as a way to avoid confronting her partner. “Because that is a wonderful distraction from making the decision to end the cheater”he commented.
Later, the former beauty queen clarified that she also ended up with that boyfriend. On the other hand, Chikybombom questioned that they want to remove responsibility from the lover, “you cannot remove guilt from the woman who messes with a married man or with a man knowing that he has his girlfriend,” she said.
In the talk, the psychologist also spoke about the lack of self-love that both those who are unfaithful and those who agree to date a person who is in a relationship have, in addition to the importance of taking therapy for those who are deceived.
“Many people who experienced infidelity later see anything, nothing is happening anymore, but they see anything and relive the emotion again,” explained Belkis Carrillo.
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