Since the Satisfyer appeared in our lives, many things have changed. Starting with the fact that more and more people know where is the clitorissomething that our vagina appreciates because it has finally stopped being the center of attention (byecoitocentrism, Hello orgasms with the whole body).
This sex thing is starting to be less and less taboo, we are more aware of our bodies and our pleasure, and people with vulva become more responsible for our orgasms thanks to the different sex toys that are on the market and that occupy a privileged space on our bedside tables.
But although we have told you how to use the Satisfyer (alone and with a partner), you may not know how to take care of it, and any other gadget for self-love. Dildos, anal plugs, vibrating bunnies, massagers and a long etcetera that deserve our love and attention so that they last for many years.
Today we are going to tell you some mistakes you may be making with your sex toys and that shorten their life and that of our orgasms.
Not using the correct lubricant
We already told you that using lubricant is one of the infallible tricks to get more powerful orgasms (little word of science), either in relationships with other people or during masturbation. Well, it’s so important to use it as choose the right lubricant.
If our toys are made of silicone (the vast majority are made of this material), The lubricant must be water based.. If the toy is made of glass or metal, we can use silicone-based lubricants, but I already told you that most toys are made of medical silicone, so a lubricant like Durex Naturals it is perfect to use together with our sex toys.
DUREX Naturals Original H2o Lubricant | 100ML Lubricant that helps maintain the balance of vaginal flora
Introduce the same toy in the anus and the vagina
Ano-vagina: no. Vagina-anus: yes. We learned this simple lesson when we talked about anal sex, and it works the same with toys. If we pass from the anus to the vagina, we can drag remains of feces and increase the risk of contracting a vaginal infection.
Not buying quality toys
There are things that should not be bought in the Chinese in your neighborhood, and this is one of them. Always buy in specialized stores to ensure that the sex toys you buy are of the highest quality.
Sharing toys with other people
As with a sexual relationship to use, if we use the same toy as our partner / or bed, we can put our health and contract an STI that we don’t want If we are going to share a toy and we do not want to risk it, we can put it in a preservative and change it when it changes hands (and vulva).
Control Condoms Finissimo Original. Super Fine Condoms Box, Extra Sensitivity, Lubricated, Safe Sex. Enjoy a Perfect Fit for a Secure Relationship, 24 Count (Pack of 1)
Not reading the instructions for use
We buy a TV and read how to tune the channels, right? Well, with sex toys we read the instructions to tune in to orgasms. Always read the instructions for use of your sex toys before you get down to work. Not only because you will get more out of them, but because they will show you, for example, if they can be used underwater, for example.
Not cleaning your sex toys after use
Think about where you use the toys and now think about whether that area deserves maximum protection every time it is touched. It is essential to clean sex toys after each use.. Manuel Pérez Gómez, Sales Manager of Be Lover Erotik Market, already told us how to clean sex toysso we will not repeat ourselves.
Not saving them correctly
Keep in a cool and dry place, like a canned food. It is vital that our toys are stored properly, that they are not exposed to the sun, that they are not in humid environments such as the bathroom, because we would shorten their life cycle. A small box in the closet is the ideal place, or the drawer of the table if we want to have it more at hand.
If possible, each toy should be kept in its own case. Lelo’s products, for example, make the latter easier for us because each toy comes with a cloth cover to store it properly, like our beloved Silawhich is still our favorite of the brand.
LELO SILA Clitoral Sucker with Sonic Pulses, Essential Vibrator for Any Woman. Female Sex Toy, Submersible and Rechargeable by USB, Aqua
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