A woman recounted the occasion when she discovered that her ex-partner was evaluating her as a wife in an Excel file, rating her on different items in order to give her a final grade.
In a TikTok video posted by the user identified as Sam Florari (@samflorari3), the woman mentioned that her discovery was by chance, since after borrowing her then-husband’s laptop, it caught her attention that her name appeared on a folder saved in documents. Of course, she couldn’t help but find out what it was, as there was also a second folder with another woman’s name on it.
I open the folder with my name and an Excel opens, in that Excel I look, and it had a title with my full name, and it said: ‘Good at cooking, washing, ironing, fearing God, in bed, doing this , doing the other, as a mother’. Oh, I don’t know, they were about 20 items.
In addition, Sam explained that the file consisted of three columns where her ex rated whether she was good, fair, or bad in each category. According to said qualification, the space changed to green, yellow, or red. In the end, the average appeared as a wife and woman.
The net, it did get me out of p7d9. I open the file with the name of the other girl, the other woman, and the same thing, it belonged to her ex-girlfriend, she was also ‘ranked’, the girl, right? At least, I came out better ‘ranked’ than her. I took out like an eight, that’s where I was.
Obviously, Sam asked his then partner why he did that, and he was very embarrassed, but he told him that it was his way of putting things cold, to make things clear.
Perhaps the story is very strange, although, if we are being honest, we all constantly evaluate our partner, we just do it in our minds, without using a spreadsheet.