As we have said before, being a mother or not should be a decision that we make with the clarity of the pros and cons. However, today, from a very young age, most women make the decision not to have children, and although we know that it is very respectable, a girl decided to share the reasons why she will never be a mother, since she is tired of having to explain her reasons to those who ask her about motherhood.
Through TikTok, the model and influencers Argentina Lumena, explained her reasons why she is not interested in being a mother, justifying that they are all very valid reasons.
First of all, the young woman explained that her “humor and patience is zero”, as she assures that her moods change all the time and she believes that all those who have children must have a lot of patience. Another of her reasons is that she “doesn’t like babies” and she wouldn’t change this if they were her own.
In addition, Lumena considers that when adults approach children, they always make different voices, the same ones that embarrass her because “she hates talking like a fool.” Finally, she added that she would like to spend her money only on herself and that when it comes to being responsible for someone, she only knows how to take care of her dog. Similarly, the young woman herself said that she could not bear to change a baby’s diapers.
Of course, her list caught the attention of users of social networks, but beyond receiving criticism, she was widely supported in the comments section, in which we could read that many people agree with her, such as a girl who added:
‘When you meet someone close to you who has a baby, you realize you don’t want that life.’
It is worth mentioning that other girls also said that they went through the same thing of not wanting children, but that, finally, after having them, they thought that “it’s not such a big deal.” Despite external opinions, what is a reality is that each woman should be free to choose to be or not to be a mother, even when her reasons are not to the liking of others.