It may be that you are married, that you have had a partner for years, that you have just gone through a breaking offthat you are single and very happy (we remind you that loneliness is not synonymous with unhappiness) or that you are looking for a partner.
If you find yourself in the latter situation, we are going to show you a red flag like a castle: that your potential partner does not like your success.
When your partner or flirt doesn’t like you to be successful
This reflection arises from a controversy. an underser (sorrythere is no better concept to define this man) named El Temach appeared on Gusgri’s podcast to make somewhat peculiar statements such as that “men are not attracted to a woman having money or success in her job” because if they are what he calls boss bitch they cannot “protect and provide”. Honey, that’s because we protect ourselves and provide for ourselves, thank you.
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— @IsaMastro (@IsaMastro) January 18, 2023
Let’s take as an example Shakira. She is an empowered woman, with money and undeniable success. What the tiktoker insinuates is that this woman is zero attractive to a man because she is not a woman who needs to be maintained. I doubt that Henry Cavill, one of the most attractive men in the worlddo not feel attracted to this diva (as soon as it was known that Piqué and Shakira separated, little things happened).
“Men need to feel useful because of how the human brain works,” he says. Fortunately for the world in general, the barrage of criticism has been such that The Temach has ended up closing its social networksbut not before receiving a response from a psychologist who explains to all of us why not trust a man who doesn’t like that you succeed at work.
Fer Gómez Estrada (@novineacomplaceranadie on TikTok) is a psychologist and her video reacting to the opinions of ‘El Temach’ has 3.9M views:
We are left with this: “This man has not developed the prefrontal part of the brain well where you develop empathy and more evolved feelings as a species”. If we think that he is an immature man as indicated by the psychologist (and with an affective responsibility equal to zero), self-conscious even in the words of Fer, if we receive this opinion from our partner is that we are not knocking on the right door.
If you feel threatened or don’t like us earning more, don’t trust us. As Fer explains, there are many insecurities behind this behavior and even a poor development of certain parts of the brain that are more than necessary for a relationship. The person who is with us should be proud of our successes. Yeah what we want is a healthy relationship.
Photos | Toa Heftiba in Unsplash
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