If we talk about sexual fantasies, perhaps one of them comes to mind. the most classic, like a trio. According to a Gleeden survey*, 66% of people have never done a ménage à trois, although most of them would like to, if only out of curiosity.
More than 60% of Spaniards have had or have some sexual fantasy or fetish, but only 67% have fulfilled some and only 9%, allpartly because we do not always have someone suitable as a sexual partner to fulfill them.
But apart from a threesome we can talk about any type of fantasy possible, from practice a black kiss Until wanting to do it with your partner disguised as Leia when she was a slave to Jabba the Hutt, as Ross confessed to Rachel.
An example in figures, according to the taboo project studio about the fantasies of the sexologist Georgina Burgos52.87% of men and 32.92% of women imagine having sex with their neighbor, co-worker, or someone they have passed on the street.
The sexual fantasy that we are going to talk about today is perhaps less well known, but according to information Gleeden, 31% of those surveyed would agree to do it with their partner, and we are referring to cuckolding.
What is cuckolding?
We could say that cuckolding is consensual infidelity. We have already told you that there are many types of infidelity, such as emotionaland today we are going to tell you a new one, which is a sexual fantasy.
It’s not what happened to Shakira with Piquenor to Tamara with Inigo. And of course, it’s not the excuse that her partner gives to your best friend to justify that she hooked up with someone else on Saturday. let’s not confuse ANDl cuckolding is a sexual fantasy that consists of your partner being with another person and that turns you on. You may masturbate thinking about your partner with another person. we’re not talking about open relationshipsnor of polyamoryWe are talking about something specific, a sexual fantasy, not a type of relationship.
A couple of facts about how popular this sexual fantasy is. According to Gleeden, 45% of those surveyed would have no problem having sex with other people while their partner watches, compared to 52% who would not agree to see their partner with another person. And the important fact: 31% would agree to cuckolding and 16% would accept only if their partner asked them to.
The expert clinical psychologist in sexology, Laia Cadens, affirms that “many couples use fetishes to get out of the routine and experience new things. As long as they are agreed upon by the couple and are not extreme, fetishes work and are habitual, as more of a stimulus than help in sexual behavior”.
Now, as with all other relationships, there are as many fantasies as there are people. My fantasy doesn’t have to be yours and yours doesn’t have to be mine. What is important is that If we want to carry out the fantasy, the first thing we must do is talk to our partneralso if our fantasy is cuckolding.
*Online survey carried out by Gleeden from December 12 to 20, 2021, among 9,380 users of its application.
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