They say that sharing is beautiful and in sex, more. Giving pleasure to another person is not only exciting, but a great way to improve your relationship and encourage intimacy to grow.
we have told you about postures to get out of the routine in sexof ways to turn on your partner without touching her and a thousand other themes, but we had never before released something so present in sex and that may, just may, mean that you are not taking as much advantage of it as you could: the fingering.
what is fingering
Before it was the only thing that porn (that horrible sex school) showed female masturbation and perhaps it sounds more familiar to you because of the name they used to refer toS (before the Satisfyer): make a finger. It sounds horrible, so we decided to modernize it by calling it fingering.
It is one of the ways to masturbate and be masturbated (here I teach you more about how to masturbate your partner) and if the person who does it knows how to move, it can be the prelude to getting a squirtbut I haven’t told you anything.
how to make a good fingering
Long nails? No, thanks
You already know that we love to have our fingernails fixed, a manicure done and our hands perfect, but the fingering It’s one of those things where having groomed (and clean) hands is a must. Think that a finger is going to be inserted into a vagina and for that, it is necessary that hygiene is not conspicuous by its absence. If we do it with dirty hands we can cause a vaginal infection and we want dramas.
Clean hands and short fingernails, please. Long nails could cause a tear that we do not want and can do baby boomer nails without these having to be long.
Before you start, warm up the bun
We don’t like to be stuck in without further ado, and in the case of the fingers the same rule can be applied. Before entering you have to knock on the doorSo feel free to touch, kiss, bite, suck and even try a dirty talk to light the flame.
And combine movements inside with movements also outside, don’t forget that the vulva is wonderfully good at giving pleasure in dozens of places. Touch them all with your hands or with your tongue, than to practice a cunnilingus at the same time as a fingering it is blessed glory
Putting in and taking out is not the way
we have told you how to find g spotSo I’m not going to repeat myself. Stop going in and out like crazy that’s not what this is about. Look for the G-spot, with a “come here” movement and being aware of what your partner likes or dislikes. Listen to what turns her on and how, and let her guide you. She will thank you.
And a sex bonus which is not essential, but it is favorable: use a lubricant, especially if there is some vaginal dryness. So things will go smoothly. Here I explain how to choose the lubricant that best suits you.
Now It only remains for you to try that fingering well thoroughly (Ahem). The same you get your first squirtor you just have a great time along the way, which is what interests us the most.
Photos | Adrien King and Womanizer Toys in UnsplashGiphy
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