When we talk about cunnilingus, we are talking about the sexual practice that consists of stimulating the female genital organs using the mouth. With this practice we stimulate the clitoris, the labia and any corner of the vulva, and it is a great and very pleasant practice.
Cunnilingus is a sexual practice that seems to be surrounded by myths, and that in the 21st century is still somewhat taboo. The best thing to break with this and normalize this fun oral sex practice is dismantle some myths about cunnilingusand it is just what we are going to do.
If I want to get cunnilingus I have to wax all over. FAKE
It seems incredible to have to be breaking myths with hair removal, but yes, they still exist. There is no requirement that asks no type of waxing as far as sex is concerned. For any type of sexual practice. Nothing at all. The BOE has not written any article that requires by law to be 100% shaved so that they eat our pussy, come on.
Deciding whether or not to shave is yours alone.. Note that I say “only your decision”, because no one should tell us how or how much to shave or judge whether or not we have hair. And if they do, let me give you a little advice: run away friend, because it’s not there.
You need a douche to get cunnilingus. FAKE
Let’s see, that here we enter the controversy of Kourtney Kardashian’s jelly beans that “improve” the smell of our vagina. The only information you need is that a vagina smells like a vagina and you don’t have to change its smell or taste.
Douching is not something your vagina needs nor your vulva. We just need proper hygiene (no gels, just a little water and hands to clean well) and someone who wants to treat themselves to eating it whole. Nothing else.
Cunnilingus can only be done with a stable partner. FAKE
In sex there are no distinctions between practices for couples, for single women or for divorced women, because dear, sex is not associated with a marital status. If cunnilingus could only be done with a stable partner, the world would be a little uglier, because it is a wonderful practice for most women with a vagina.
To carry out any sexual practice, whatever it may be, We only need one thing: that the people involved want to do it. From practice a black kiss until try sexting, the pegging or oral sex. For none of them we need to have a stable partner.
All people with a vulva like cunnilingus. FAKE
If there’s one thing peculiar about sex, it’s that it’s as different as the person you ask. There is no standard applicable to all vulvas in the world or a practice that 100% of the population likes. And although this practice is usually pleasant, it may not be for you, just like the Satisfyer may not work for you like it does for your friends.
Of course, ask yourself if you do not like it because of the social construct, because of the pressure of whether it will smell you or not, because of the doubt if the person who does it to you will like it and other “noise” that surrounds people with vulva who receive pleasure orally, or if really that being eaten is not for you. If it’s not for you, don’t worry, there are so many practices that not practicing oral sex is not a problem at all.
You can only have cunnilingus lying on the bed. FAKE
I would tell you that you do not know what it is to live if you have never tried a sexual position called facesitting, one of the postures to get out of the routine in sex and one of the best options for cunnilingus. But she’s not the only one: sitting at a table, lying face down on the bed, standing with one leg on the shoulder of the person who does it to you, in the shower… The possibilities are endless.
Men don’t like to perform cunnilingus. FAKE
Nothing is further from reality. I tell you from experience that there are men who enjoy eating pussy, just as there are women who love to eat pussy and men and women who enjoy we enjoyed a lot giving fellatio. As we told you before, in sex no two people are the same and even if you have had sexual partners who do not like to perform cunnilingus, it is not something that can be applied 100% of people.
You can’t get an STD from cunnilingus. FAKE
Like all sexual practices, cunnilingus is not one hundred percent safe. most of STDs can be transmitted through the mouth, According to Dr. Ryan Berglund, urologist and men’s health specialist. Herpes, HIV, trichomoniasis, hepatitis A, B and C, genital warts… To prevent it, good hygiene and the use of latex bands are recommended, which we can do by cutting a condom lengthwise to protect the mouth that will be in contact with the vulva.
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