Despite the fact that in today’s society, women have the freedom to decide whether or not to become mothers, there is still a strong taboo around girls who do not want to become mothers. For this reason, those who decide to manifest it do not take long to be judged or criticized in this regard or face social pressure with comments that they may regret it at some point in their lives.
Whether it is because they do not have the maternal instinct, to prioritize their work or simply because of the current situation of the world in which we live, many women decide not to be mothers, a decision that should be completely valid and respectable. Just as the former Miss Universe Andrea Meza stated, who assured that she had no desire to become a mother.
The confession of the former Mexican beauty queen was given during a section of the program Today which leads to the side of Penelope Menchaca, in which the subject of the taboo of women who do not want to become a mother was addressed. In the interview with the psychologist Belkis Carrillo, she said that she does not like children and has no patience for them, so she did not see herself having a child in her arms.
During the talk, the drivers could be seen talking and discussing the subject. For her part, the presenter known as Chiky bombom spoke from her experience and assured that the majority of women who do not want to be mothers is because they have not gone through the experience, so Meza interrupted her to express her point of view and the decision not to see a baby.
I don’t like children, I don’t have patience, I don’t see myself taking care of a child. So why am I going to have a child that later I am going to be unhappy because I have to be doing something that I never saw myself doing. Apart from all this, I am at a point in my professional career where I don’t want to take time away from my career, I don’t want to stop working or for a while to do other activities. I want to focus 100 percent on this.
When explaining the reasons that led her to make the decision not to want to be a mother, Andrea Meza assured that it is preferable not to have a child than to pay attention to social pressure and that when it is born, to be unhappy with the decision to have a baby that he did not want and with a responsibility that he never saw himself doing.
Respecting her point of view and accepting that her position is quite mature and responsible regarding motherhood, both her colleagues and the psychologist present commented that her decision is valid, to which the former Miss Universe replied that her priority is her work and she loves herself. Focus one hundred percent on your professional career.
To end her point of view, Meza spoke about being very clear not only with her regarding the desire not to want children, but also to manifest it from the beginning in a loving relationship with the couple, so that both agree with the decision and in the future no misunderstanding will arise.